- Guys don’t hate small boobs. They just like to look at big ones sometimes. Don’t worry about it, though. Guys just appreciate getting some, so their mind isn’t focused on how big your boobs are when you’re in the moment having sex. And coming from a girl with big boobs, I definitely wish a lot of the time that I had smaller ones. They can get in the way during sex! I can’t really explain it, haha. Just love your bod :)
- Stretch marks suck. And the age, weight, and darkness of them has a lot to do with genetics. Try cocoa butter and drugstore brands to try and get them to fade. I don’t know of any way to lighten to vaginal area, though. It’s completely normal for that part of your body to be darker, though. Don’t worry about it!
- If a girl wants to have sex during her period, I DO suggest the shower. Very suitable place. YES YES YES - you need a condom even when having sex in the shower or any place with water. And, no problem! :)
- I’ve done that before! Hahahaha “without looking like a moron,” definitely loved how you worded that. I can’t really picture doing it any other way than how I did it without it looking… stupid. Do you know how to tie one? If not, learn super fast. What I did, and what you could do, is untie it from around his neck, and then slowly/seductively tie it around yours while kissing him. And when you’re done kissing, PRESTO! You’ll be looking hot in his tie.
- That’s awesome, thank you! :)
- I’m going to make a post late tonight or tomorrow and list a bunch of them since it seems a lot of people want to know.
- I’ll check it out!
- See answer to #2 :)
- You should expect pure awesomeness. You’ll definitely enjoy it. Have sex with him if you trust him. I mean, this is from an outsider’s point of view, but if he mentioned going down on you before talk about actual sex, I doubt he’s going to hit it and quit it, you know? But, go with your gut.
- It’s from Dexter. Episode 2x06 I think.
- No bother! Googling and reading stuff about it helps, but honestly, experience is the best thing when it comes to oral. You won’t be an expert at it the first time, because the guy will definitely appreciate anything you do when it comes to his penis. Trust me. Yea, the penis isn’t the most attractive thing in the world, not gonna lie. If it grosses you out that much, you can always ask him to wear a condom (I suggest a flavored one). You’ll get used to it after a while and not feel the need to use it anymore.
- Oooooh, prom! http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/hand-job is the best article and truly contains the best advice. There’s links in my ‘links’ section of my page for the blowjob portion. But when it comes to both of them, don’t try to do anything fancy since it’s your first time. You might come off as looking like a bit of a… spaz? Haha. Have fun at prom!
- If you’re not sure you want to have sex, especially since you’re 13, I think you should wait. When you’re ready, you’ll know :)
- You have to sit him down and have a legit serious talk about not having anal. Explain that a lot of women can’t do anal because it can really hurt. And if it’s THAT painful, there’s a good chance it can cause rectal problems for you. Tell him to imagine a penis going up his ass. That usually gets ‘em.
- a. Yes. If you don’t, the whole thing will be awkward and not how sex should be. At all. It’s kind of a requirement, really.
b. It depends on the girl. Sometimes there’s hardly any, sometimes the bleeding comes later in the day or the next day, etc etc. Just have sex in a bed, you can always change the sheets if it’s that bad.
c. Sometimes, but really only if it’s just a quicky or something like that. You can always opt for the lights off if you’re super nervous. Guys usually don’t spend a whole lot of time staring at your vagina unless they’re giving you oral.
- Thank you! And I plan on it :)
- Because I’m a girl, lasting longer in bed isn’t a topic I know much about. But in my opinion, most it comes down to just relaxing. I found this link that might help? http://www.menshealth.com/spotlight/sexualhealth/last-longer.php Good luck!
- http://fuckthesex.tumblr.com and http://-dirtylittlefreaks-.tumblr.com are ones I follow that are super erotic. I’ll search for more.
- Thanks mamaaaa :)
- Thank you! Olivia Wilde is just… yum.
- Ever tried giving an ice blow job? Try putting an ice cube in your mouth, or sucking on a couple beforehand and it’ll give your guy the best sensation ever. Also, don’t just use your mouth and tongue, incorporate some hand action - friction makes for the best blowjob. I’m adding to more links right now to the blowjob section of my links page if you’d like to check ‘em out.
- Thank you :) Yea, I get what you mean. I’ve witnessed a lot of blogs being rude to their followers for no reason. It’s incredible.
- I’m glad it’s useful. And thanks!
- She really is - looks AND personality wise. And thank you!
- I have the biggest girl crush on olivia wilde, adriana lima, and scarlett johansson. Those are the only girls I’d get with. I have a lot of favorite guy and girl celebrities who I think are gorgeous/hot.
- I don’t know which one it is, sorry. If anyone knows, reply to this or shoot me a message!
- Try role playing, lingerie, the use of toys, and switching it up position wise. Doing something super romantic beforehand can work wonders as well. Or try sex in a public place or somewhere around your house you would have never imagine having sex.
- Thank you so much! :)