Sex As Fashion.

Honestly, I have to tell you that I'm happy you listed abortion as an option to an unwanted pregnancy. I think too many young girls totally discard that based on the fact that it's morally "wrong". I just think it's more "wrong" to bring an unwanted child into the world when one is too young to possibly care for such a child in an adequate manner. I love all your advice! Excellent blog! Keep it up :)

this is just kind of a "reply" to alot of asks you've had about people having not had their first kiss(when i say kiss i mean the make out kind of thing, not just a peck). basically, pretty much everybody in my year/the same age as me that i knew had already had their first kiss. i was absolutely terrified because i didn't want to be really bad or anything, and i felt i was really late if that makes sense. so a few days ago i went to a "piss up" where everybody has alcohol etc. and then people asked to kiss me, and because i wasn't very drunk i was still scared, but i just did it. i mean, if i was horrible i could've blamed the alcohol i guess. the person i did it with "lead" so all i had to do was kind of mirror what they were doing. afterwards the person i kissed said i was good, and i was quite proud of myself and happy i'd just gone and done it. what i'm trying to say is, don't worry if you mess up, i doubt your partner/the person you plan on having your first kiss with will be too bothered - especially if they know it's your first kiss. sorry for such an essay here, and i love your blog aswell - it's so classy not like alot of the other sex blogs that seem to be just slutty porn. :-)

You always give good advice, and your other followers always have good input to questions too, so I want everyone's opinion. I worked with a guy about 6 months ago and I had a huuuge crush on him, mostly just lustful though. But he had a girlfriend, so I kept my distance. We were never flirtatious but we were friendly. We would text each other on our nights off. Well, one night I got really really drunk [two words: four loko.] And I texted him, telling him I wanted to cuddle and that he had great lips. He was like "I have a girlfriend, sorry." And shook it off and we continued to be friends, no big deal. Then he left for a job in a different city and we stopped talking, 3 months later, I get a text and it's him, asking to hang out., which he never did when we worked together. I check his facebook and it said he was single. So, we hung out, and he initiated cuddling and kissing. That was two weeks ago, he has probably talked to me twice since then. So, I am assuming I was a rebound or something? But really? I wouldn't have MINDED being the rebound, if he told me, I mean, I really could have made it a lot better than small kisses, if you know what I mean. I mean, I like the saying "If a guy likes you, he will act like he likes you." It just sucks because, I forgot about him and HE popped back into my life and initiated everything! And I didn't even get anything besides kissing! Weak! Should I call this a dud and forget it? Your opinion and others are welcome as well. Sorry this is so long!